A close friend told me about a meeting a few years back in the United Kingdom where Lloyd was not invited at first, but begged to be part of the meeting.
You have some of the details right. It was Steven Hassan’s “Undue Influence” symposium. And you know what you know because it was Marc Latham at the bottom of the stairs.
It was circa 2014 and he was a relatively new activist. His daughter was very young. It was a few months after she was born and this was either during or shortly after his stint as AAWA president. I think after. He wasn’t earning much at the time and he still had one foot in the translation business and the other foot was starting to get wet with new donations.
Anyway, Marc met him, Dijana and the newborn in the lobby. After Marc warmly greeted them all and was being playful with his daughter, Lloyd got distracted and was more worried about making it to the conference and setting himself up as a speaker. So he left Marc, Dijana and the baby in the pram down in the lobby and darted up the stairs. This place did not have a lift from the lobby to the floor where the conference was. So when Marc realised that Lloyd wasn’t coming back, together with Dijana they carried the pram with the baby in it up the stairs.
Upstairs, Hassan was sitting at a conference table with chairs behind it. He agreed to let Lloyd sit behind it with him along with others but Lloyd insisted on using a podium like he did as a Kingdom Hall elder. He didn’t get what he wished for as this was Hassan’s event, so he sat there behind the table with a sour look on his face. When he started speaking no one could get him to shut up and he practically hijacked it. It was effectively the start of his activism career.
It was also the last time he saw Marc on friendly terms. In 2015 the COC copyright theft scandal happened and Marc found himself on the outs with Lloyd. In one of his trademark FB rants, after disowning Marc as a friend and falsely claiming Marc was an evangelical fundamentalist out to discredit him due to his atheism, Lloyd clutched more than a few pearls saying he remembered Marc giving him a great bear hug the last time they met.
So tragic. Now back to my drink and we’re watching Cobra Kai in a few minutes. Salut!